Re: I am married with children but my ex-lover wants me back

You are in a bad shape. Nobody forgets how painful it feels to lose a child; in this instance, two children. Whether it happened as a result of your curse or not, it was what you wished her and it came to pass. Your best bet is to hold on to your present family. Kabirat wants to get at you. She would do more than speak a negative word into your life; she will finish you if you let her in. Run away from her. Run! Run!! Run!!!

Deolu, Lagos



It is better to let Kabirat go or she will destroy you.

Mabogunje S B



If I may ask, was she not alive to see you molested and assaulted by members of her family? In the end she decided to leave you out in the cold. Was she not aware of your love and the promise you made to her? So why did she let another man impregnate her?

Friend, you have to shrug off this sentiment. Remove the veil from your face and move on with your life. If you had died in the course of the threat to your life would she be seeking your remains now?

As for the prediction you made which came to pass; you have apologised so the condition she is giving for forgiveness is uncalled for. My advice is that you should stop seeing and thinking about her. Focus on building your home and loving your wife more. That’s all.

Gideon Obika, Odogunyan

I am a student of Guidance and Counselling. I read about the case between you and Kabirat. It is obvious that she did not love you. What you had then was the normal things that are common to students. That was why she ran after another lover. Love is based on maturity. Why are you dying for somebody who does not truly care for you? The fact that your prediction came to pass and it did not favour her must be the reason she is asking to come back to you. She wants to retaliate. She will harm you if you allow her to come back. Don’t destroy the lovely family that God gave to you by thinking of bringing her back. Build the love you have for her on the mother of your children. Kabirat is not your wife; don’t allow her to destroy your marriage.
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