Marriage is impossible with him

I am 33 years old, still single but searching desperately because my younger sisters are all married. The problem I have now is this guy I am dating.

He is asking for my hand in marriage but I don‘t love him! He always asks for sex on the phone; he is an alcoholic.

He depends on me for clothes and recharge cards and he talks as if he lacks sense. He had asked that my father picked a date for our formal introduction, but I stopped it because I don’t know this guy enough to marry him. His brother, who was my school-mate, was the one who introduced him to me. Though my parents are helping me concerning this issue, I am fast losing my sense over it. What do I do?

HU,

Ibadan



That you are desperately searching should never make you pick a partner from the dump-site! Fortunately for you, this guy has exhibited all that could make you refuse his marriage proposal. You are so lucky that he did not pretend; neither did he hide his real self from you. You need not to be told to leave him, or do you? I don’t even see the reason why you should become so desperate for marriage just because your sisters are married.

If you bow to societal pressure on marriage, you will make a wrong choice, which is one of the greatest mistakes any individual could make in life. Take your time to search well, pray to get a sincere and committed man and never marry anyone you don’t love!
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